okay, before i begin let me say a few things..
I guess there are some readers out there that might say,
"why is this guy so contradicting?"
as my previous post wrote that we have an option.
still dun get it?
Coz most people think that if there is already fate,
why is there options for us to make.
What is fate?
Fate is well, they say is the opposite of luck and coincidence.
Well, i am nt gonna define fate like wikipedia does.(too long and theoretical)
bt its important to at least know a bit of it.
If you were to look back at history and see how things happen and its consequences,
you will see it more like things were prearrange.
However, if you try to look at the future, you will see decisions, choices, options that are to be made.
Thus, fate is shaped from what we do now(the present)
and when we look back, we see cause and effect, that is consequences.
So then why do some of us believe in fate??
Well, in terms of religion, as for my opinion.
Its something that gives you confident to make decisions.
Makes you feel better, like you are being insured.
For those ppl who wants to condemn me, go ahead, coz this is my blog=)
Okay, sorry for that little sidetrack.hahax..
let me continue,
Fate gives you confident as in you feel you will not go wrong in whichever decision you make.
Its like telling you that life is up and down, you should embrace the future.
However, there are some people who over interpret it.
They feel that in life, we cannot change fate and it is something we must follow.
Okay, maybe following the light out of a jungle is acceptable for me.
But this is the future we are talking about, something we haven seen.
We can shape it as we want, just that when you look back at it, its consequences.
Do not think that if you are born that way, you stay that way.
You can change=)
Nobody has the right to tell you who you are and what you are.
Future is still unknown, something that can be forecast yet varies.
Conclusion, we shape our future via decisions to be made and fate is something that provides us a secured feeling like an insurance.