Problems?

It sucks when things sometimes dun go your way.
yea, it sucks so bad that u juz wanna get it over with.
But its ain't that easy,

So, staying positive is important,
no matter what the situation is,
"Whats done was done.."
The damage is done, suck it up and live with it.

In Buddhism,
"Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional".

I quite agree on this actually.
Many times i did experience some difficulties.
I am pretty sure most of you out there did too.
To everyone, their problem is always the biggest.

Human are born to be selfish, basic behavior to ensure survival.

Because most of us thinks that our problem is the biggest, we often forget to look for the solution.
We instead keep looking at the problem as it is.
If you only see the problem from one perspective,
your understanding on it will be limited.

Hence, it would be better to look at the problem from a different angle.

Once again, it is easy said than done.
We emphasis too much on the problem itself due to our emotions at times.
We are human after all, ain't perfect, and will make mistakes from time to time.

Worse thing that can happen is to shift the blame to someone else.
In that way, we can remove ourselves from being liable to the problem.
That is a very selfish act, but sadly was often done by most of us.

 Okay, i wrote enough.
Was quite busy for the past few weeks.