why????

so, why??
why this and that happened?

Curiosity sometimes gives birth to purpose.
As we human beings have the tendency to know things.
Things especially what we called "TRUTH".

Human are quite weird in a way.
We go forward to seek the truth.
But we didn't quite know what to do after seeking it.

Anyway, i will be talking a bit on religion.
not too much.
What we can see is people keep fighting against on another..
To prove who's religion is the most righteous..

Let me tell ya something,
They fought to show who's better and in control.
They talk and say they are the most righteous.
Why do they do that for?

People tend to fight to show who is better in this case.
They wanna be right so much because,they do not wanna be wrong for what they had been doing for so many years.
Example, your family tells you that killing is correct since you were young,
how do you feel if someone tells you that you are wrong out of sudden?
This feeling is develop due to the insecure feeling of an individual.

So is it because they feel insecure from other people's religion?
they feel so insecure that they end up fighting?
If they feel they are the most righteous, they do not have to show or proof it using this way for they should have faith in their god!!!
not themselves in their own way...
Those it means their actions doubt their god???
i am not saying that they are wrong totally but..

come on, i mean the world is gonna end one day,
lets make the best out of it.
And when a country is at war, who are the ones that suffer??
The nations.., and everyone knows that.
Its simple yet why not many people acknowledge this fact?

kk..
bb...

open tuition lai lai lai...

okay, so, me and my friends will be opening a tuition near Manjalara that is in Kepong area.
Its near Taman Bukit Maluri.
Not the Maluri in Cheras.

Anyway,
We will be teaching Physics, add math, math and english.
First class is free.
Yes, we are giving trial classes.

email me: limkaiyuan_92@yahoo.com
or
contact me via fb if interested:Kai Yuan

turning over a new leaf=)

and so,
i turn over a new leaf.

after all, my house gt many leaves.
okay, that was lame. ==

today won't be about any lesson. just about me=)

so, yeah i am just doing this for the sake of updating this blog.

I never knew that shopping alone is fun.
i went to Tesco, tried 15 shirts and bought one.
well, it has to fit in and as well as being compatible to my wallet you see.

hahax..
well, when i went to shop around, i envy those with couple going out.
And i look at myself and said "when will be my turn?"hahax..

I went to Midvalley and watch the season of the witch.
Wasn't nice.
Well, partially coz i wasn't focus on the movie 100%.
Yes, i had my focus on something else.
No, not on the popcorn..

Anyway, if you are a guy who noes bout history during the crusades, you might like it.
Normal ppl won't.

okay.
bb..
Thanx 4 making me smile=)

the world is round dude..

the world is round..
not fair and square man..
lets face it, there is no fairness in this world.
So, lets stop thinking whether if people are treating you fair enough a not.

What I am saying is that, lets not be so calculative at the same time.
People tends to compare one another especially if they are in the same position or rank.
They will try to see what they get and compare it to others.
And if they have less, they will complain about unfairness or something else.
But if they had more, they will be happy.
Well, it does not ends there, some might show it off to those who had less than them.
It will cause the other party to feel that he or she got some unfair treatment.

Why do people compare?
First thing first, human tends to see what they don't have than what they had.
2nd, human tends to see what other people have that they dun have.
Thus, due to that, they compare.

This deduction maybe wrong however due to too many flaws in it.
Thus, it is arguable,which makes it a statement i guess.

Let me get back what i was trying to explain,
sorry for my small sidetrack.

A case of scenario, a student saw a few of his friends having an iphone.
Then that student looks at himself and felt that he is lack of something.
That is the iphone.
Due to his friends, that is the surrounding, it causes a feeling that made him felt as though as he is being left out as well.
Thus, he went to his parents and ask for an iphone.
Btw, did i mention that he has a nice car that all his friends doesn't have?
Why didn't all his friends ask their parents to get one?
Because a group is more influencing than a single person.

Yes, it is a dominant of a majority over a minority in other words.
That is if you could see it.

well,
thats all.
bb..
i lazy to explain many things.
go find out yourself=)

we beneficial of technology?

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wokay,
so regarding the topic..
are we as human gain entirely benefits from technology?

That i would disagree..
We dun just gain benefits from it but also some disadvantages as well.
Well, things comes in a package like a person.
You can't just have all the good stuffs.
Its the law of equation that balance it up.
Derive from YingYang theory.
okay, enough of some minor explanation..

As we gain benefits from the continuing evolving technology,
without realizing it..., we keep try to keep ourselves with the current technology.
As in we keep wanting more and more from it as new ones comes in.

Without realizing, we became a slave of technology.
You know a donkey that keep chasing after the carrot that is tie on its head in front of it? And it keeps on going after the carrot and can never get it?
Well, that is the same case of scenario that is happening to some of us.=)

Thankfully most of us are not to that extreme i guess.
hahax..
This is just one of the disadvantage however.

Well, i didn't say its totally wrong to keep up with technology.
But lets see, who's money were you using again to buy those nice phone and stuffs?
Raise you hand if you think you are using your are own money.
And when i said own money is not from pocket money or ang pau, but hardwork(not chores).

Okay, how many of you out there are lying now??
hahax..
See thats the thing here, its basically not your money to begin with,
and you use it like it is yours.
Okay, then some of you might be saying, then how are we suppose to buy those things if we dun even have earning power? aren't we just still kids?
My response would be:
"Great, so you knew and acknowledge that you were still a kid, so why going after those expensive things when you dun even have earning power?"

Okay, for those who really work and earn your money, then i respect.
But for those who are not, well, I don't care what you do.
Its not my problem.=)
Earn it and its yours.. that i respect.
If it is the otherwise, then nvm, its your own life anyway, you make the call.

kk..
bb...

hunger..

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okay, so i was working ystrdy at APIIT.
doing some packaging and carrying.
I felt like a robot doing it.

Woke up at 5.30am.
drove my bro to school at 6.30am.
Fetch my two friends to work and reach college at 9.30am.
almost 3hours of driving.
The main point is that i was starve too death.
From 4pm till 8.30pm.
Usually at home i would have ate something.
I was caught up in the jam in that time.
Damn LDP...
MW so cruel, said that i should endure my hunger and be a man.
TT

Well, i would like to thank one of my friend who i drop home.
Coz that family of my friend kindly invited me for dinner with them.
hahax..thanx
bt too bad i already ask my dad to bungkus something for me already.
And so i drove home, trying my best to keep myself awake.

As i arrive home, i ate a lot bt gt tired more than hungry.
So i slept at around 10.30pm.

yohohoh...

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oh yeah, 2nd week of holiday.
and i am nt so productive..
Well, in terms of manga and sleep then yes i was.

okay okay,
let me get to the point.
today will be about leadership.
Now, don't be skeptical or stereotype over whether only man or woman can be a leader.
Have their pros and cons yea know..
okay, that is not the point anyway.
My apologies for the sidetrack.=)

still here? nice.

So, being a leader isn't easy as it seems.
As in a good leader, not the lazy one where he or she does nothing.
Sounds so familiar though..hahax.., no its not me.
maybe a little like me.ha

A leader is to take full responsibility of the task given.
Whether it success or not, its because of the leader's action.
Just like making a ship, whether if it will set sail and float or sink..,
its because of the person who made it.
That is the leader's job.
Taking responsibilities to sum it all up.
Whether if it is to give instructions, supervise or to guide..,
a leader must never ever blame the members..
If that member did not perform well, its your fault as a leader of not managing that person properly.
Thus, you failed as a leader or so i can say u did not do well.
However, that is not the of the world,
learn from your mistakes.., get feedbacks from members.
"Each time you fail, you are another step closer to success" by Tony Buzan modified by me.

Meaning each time you fail, you reduce the number of time you need to fail to succeed.
=)
So, be happy even when you fail.
Of coz not asking you to sit there and just be happy.
Learn from it.

So, still think its nice being a leader? where everyone put high hopes on u.
The pressure...
The burden..
The expectations..
The results...
Then come again.., responsibilities..

ok..
bb...

and so...

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and so..
i didn't end up working in pwtc.
instead i get to work at ucti main building.
my job is to greet people especially parents.=)
most kids came in wit blur face.hahax..

I learn a few things.
that is the process.
People who were at the exhibition are people
who aren't sure of which place to go and they had many things in mind.
So, they won't listen much to you.
Thus, u gotta grab their attention with a different approach. Here you probe.

Well, as for 2day and saturday in the main building.
People who came in here are qualified prospect that is customers who are willing to listen to you.
This is because they want to know more and they want to see proof.
Thus, in this phase you need to convince.
My job of greeting them is to give a good impression.
"People dun really remember what you told them but remember more on how you made them feel.."
Remember this phrase if u wanna be a good salesperson.
Now, when u convince, you dun convince too many things.
As in dun try to proof to many thing and value.
However, try to focus on a few.
People dun remember everything you said, but only a few that seems important to them.
That is things or value that benefits them users.
Relate it to them on how it will benefit them=)

ok..
next time, after i write a book.
please buy it, ok?
jz joking la.
But i will write a book next time.
a simple yet powerful book.
Oh yeah, its more powerful than that thick textbook of urs.