Goals?

Nope, this ain't about football goals.
This is about your goal in life.
What do you want 10 years from now in your life?

I know that most of us can answer that really easily.
But is that what you really want?
Will you be satisfied after that?
Think deeper if you must.

After all, having a goal or a few goals in life,
keeps you going.
I mean, some of us have nothing much to look forward to at times.
During those times, we actually waste a lot of time doing nothing productive.

Of course some of you may argue that
we may need to take a break from life itself.
But isn't that similar to running away from problems?

Not saying that taking a break in life is bad, but do it too often
and it will become a habit.

We all need to have at least a purpose to keep us 'alive' in this world.
Else we may not even live our life at all.

Problems?

It sucks when things sometimes dun go your way.
yea, it sucks so bad that u juz wanna get it over with.
But its ain't that easy,

So, staying positive is important,
no matter what the situation is,
"Whats done was done.."
The damage is done, suck it up and live with it.

In Buddhism,
"Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional".

I quite agree on this actually.
Many times i did experience some difficulties.
I am pretty sure most of you out there did too.
To everyone, their problem is always the biggest.

Human are born to be selfish, basic behavior to ensure survival.

Because most of us thinks that our problem is the biggest, we often forget to look for the solution.
We instead keep looking at the problem as it is.
If you only see the problem from one perspective,
your understanding on it will be limited.

Hence, it would be better to look at the problem from a different angle.

Once again, it is easy said than done.
We emphasis too much on the problem itself due to our emotions at times.
We are human after all, ain't perfect, and will make mistakes from time to time.

Worse thing that can happen is to shift the blame to someone else.
In that way, we can remove ourselves from being liable to the problem.
That is a very selfish act, but sadly was often done by most of us.

 Okay, i wrote enough.
Was quite busy for the past few weeks.