the bitter truth..

lol..
wait, why did i put this topic??
oO
you guys thought i am going to write about myself?
nah.., in your face..
eh.., still here ah??

ok lo.., i shall proceed.
sometimes when a person suddenly changes his or her way of treating you,
at that time, you have to take up the courage to ask the person.
don simply assume things.
Things might not what you expect it to be.
But also make sure you are ready for whatever answer you get.

Well, some people ignore you out of sudden, avoiding as in.
This kind of people sometimes think that in that way, they can avoid.
But to the person they avoid.., will think differently.
Some may think that why is that person acting that way?
Did I do anything wrong?
or say anything wrong??
silence is golden at times, but silence can also be like an assassin of the night.
lol..
That person will feel sad not because of being avoided or whatsoever but sad that he or she did not know what had he or she done wrong for this to happen.

kk..
bb..
lol..
maybe next post is about ICT.

today is a good day=)

2day is a good day.
coz its friday=)

So, lets talk bout the people now a days where they start to act aggressive towards others.
Now, when this happens,
words that are as sharp as blades will start coming out..
Sometimes even actions are taken that will hurt another.
But, you may ask.., who is at fault?
Allow me to first explain a few things.
Now lets look at the reasons:
1)Due to disagreements.
2)Due to prejudice.

Now, everyone are different as in way of thinking even the slightest bit due to experience and education from surrounding.
When ppl have different thinking, which cause them to disagree and prejudice.
They end up clashing with others whether big or small clashes.
Thus, everyone will argue, disagree and fight at some point of life even they do not want that to happen.
Who would want to always argue or fight?
Nobody wants it to happen..

Hey, but i am a nobody, thus i will want=)

hahax.. jz jk..
back to the point,
so now, whose at fault?
okay, first of all, in most disagreements, there will be one person(1st) who started it by saying something or doing something.
There will be another person(2nd) who will react to that action or words.

So, many ppl mite say that its the 1st person who was at fault.
Well, both were actually at fault.
1st person could have express things out in a better manner or channel.
2nd person could have control him or herself to react properly towards the 1st person's action.

Either way, both side could have handle it better.
Not saying that arguement can be totally avoided, but reducing its frequency of occurrence and its effect even if it happen.

Not asking you to change overnight though.,
it takes time.
You can move a big mountain to another place by yourself in jz a moment but it takes time.(Not including using big machine or dynamite and stuff)..

lol..
kk...
bb..

yo..., back a while..

yes, i am busy with my assignments lately.
so, thus i dun hav time 2 update my blog.
And yes, i am doing tis for the sake of updating.

I hereby proclaim that i had now update my blog.
so gud bye...
still reading??
okay, okay...

updating is a process where I put in some new info.
thats all.

okay la, here it is.
wats with ppl and their religion lately??
i dun mean that its wrong protecting ur religion.
it states there as protecting not fighting other religion.
Protecting is an action that where one shield something from offense or something.
Not asking you to burn down other religion or kill them?
when people were ask why they do that,
they say that they are awakening ppl, showing them the truth...
my balls man...
this is not the way to show it.
it only disgrace your own religion by doing so.
shame on you...
i myself respect other religion.
Everyone has something to believe or something to hold on to.
that thing is called religion or beliefs or some maybe science or self.
You have the right to believe whatever you want but that gives you no right to condemn others...

kk...
i gtg man..
bb..
busy man talking...

the time has come for me 2 shine did not.

once again, ignore the fancy title.
for it is nothing.

Had I know you are like that,
Had I should I forget,
For I will not regret,
For I did not feel sad,
Because you are fat.

hahaahaahahaa.... one of the funny poem i came out with.
I had plenty of it=)

Okay, okay.. here is the original of it:

Had I know you will regret,
I should have forget,
For I rather be bad,
Than to make you sad,
cause my love for you,
is more than just simple as that.

hmmm..., i dunno wat i am writing...
bt it sounds kinda...crap.
as u can see...,
i spend 10 minutes on it.lol...
anyway, its jz an update.

taking a girl for a movie is no joke.
rm50 jz go jz like that.hmmm....

kk
b...

forget me not u shall..

ignore the fancy topic lol,
hmmm...
i remember during my secondary school life,
once I was playing basketball which of coz requires me to mark a target tat is my opponent.
then my opponent dunno y dun like me gua.
scold me nvm..
later when continue playing he hit my face with his elbow.
ouch...
lol...
bt i just say nvm, small thing.
Dunno wats his problem.
keep scolding me==
Thus, I conclude there are many types of people in this world.
Everyone is different in many ways..
Despite that, we humans are born with nothing,
and die with nothing.
From dust you were made, to dust you return" from the holy bible though.
What give us the right to judge others or be superior than another?
Then again, it is at the same time not wrong for us to judge others.
Confused?
Well, that is one of my interpretation on one of Buddha's teaching where "right is wrong and wrong is right".
lol.., each ppl may hav different interpretation on this.
hmm..., like some may say that do the wrong things for the right reason.

Well, at the end of the game I just told him sorry if i had done anything.
though he gave a fierce reaction, but at least I noe I done my part.

lol, I dun belive in violence.

kk..
bb...

self defence is important??

hmm...,
self defence is martial art or so tat is wat many ppl think..
ermm.., many ppl gt the wrong idea that gud martial art is where u can wack ppl like wat u saw in the movies in IP-Man, wing chun.

martial art is wat it is depending on how u use it.
like wat ip-man said.., ten ppl come.. best thing 2 do is run..
no matter how pro u are.., many one 2 many combat is nt easy..
its jz a movie after all..
last time when i 1st learn aikido, i asked the same question 2 my sensei.
so, watching tat movie in tat part makes me laugh.
jz tat i dun end up kena chase by many ppl.

okay, back 2 main topic..
self defence, most of them emphasis on 1 to 1 combat..
so, if 1 to many.., jz run..
Knowing self defence is gud if for gud practice and use.
But being street-wise is far more important..,
coz tat can save urself..
Being street-wise in the sense that being aware of your surrounding.
Knowingly what happening or is someone following you.
In lay-mans term, instinct.
that is prevention.
as they always say, "prevention is better than cure or defends"

There was tis mom tat came 2 my sensei's dojo..
ask us 2 train her daughter technique..==
straight away technique...wtf..
she is a freaking 4 years old...
who barely even talks much or understand much..
omg...
asking her to do some basic movement is hard enuf..
u think ur daughter is genius ah? or we are god ah?
martial art needs patience, time...
nt in one day or weeks...
u dun think tis is like those tution where they hav intensive class..
n u cannot force ur child like tat..
if she dun wan, ma dun wan la.
wat for spoil her childhood.
let her enjoy it.
treasure it as a gud memory.

my friend, a gal ask me and my friend hw 2 defend herself..
then at last she ask wat if some ppl tie her or hold her both hands and leg..
or push her down....
hey, we are not god la...
if kena till like tat.., then jz kena lor..
wat can do??
tats y being streetwise is important.
martial art is more like a lifestyle or culture instead of self-defence.

no u dun

No, u dun greet your friends on the road by knocking their car..
I am talking bout the rate of accidents anywayz...
ignore the 1st sentence.
hmm...
still here??
wow..,
okay, so accidents has occur a lot recently.
especially during the peek hours.
People tends to be less patient due to anxious feeling of wanting to go a certain destination.
Thus, they drive faster. and bang..., knock a car in front, side, back..(can't think of any other angle u can knock)
Then, when an accident occurs.., people tend 2 slow down to watch, even the opposite side(worse, very sampat). Trafic will squeeze into smaller lanes.
Of course that results in massive jam.
And people became less patient as the jam or wait increase..
Worse, some keep observing the accident, they didn't c themselves..then bang!!
another accident...
sad case..
sounds like some final destination shit..
lolz..
bb
busy man now.